I am named executor on both wills.
The cash in joint checking (only assets left) went to husband at death but wife had surgery the day she passed so there will be some medical bills. Can I pay wife’s medical out of husband’s estate? - if not, how are they handled. There is enough cash... Read more »

Unfortunately, you have to probate both wills, first, all of the wife's property passed to the husband, and then all of the husband's property passed according to his will. Joint checking accounts are an asset that can be brought back into the estate even though they pass outside of the... Read more »
Daughter wanted it out of reverse mortgage.
Asked me to sign a paper to do so. I did,after much
Badgering! Only to find out later it was a quit claim deed that I signed!
Her husband has now evicted me! Do l have any rights ?
They have all household goods also.

You probably have a good argument that the quitclaim deed was signed either under fraudulent circumstances or duress. Either way, you need to contact a local attorney as this is going to take a lawsuit to get fixed. Your lawyer will need to sit down and discuss all of the details to determine what... Read more »

The Will is normally not controlling on burial matters as the body is not normally considered part of the estate. It is possible to get a permit to exhume a body but it is not a simple process. You should contact a lawyer near where your mother is buried to get a more specific opinion as to what... Read more »

Being on the deed and being a borrower on the mortgage are two different things. Being on the mortgage is irrelevant but if your mom is on the deed to your house and she leaves her portion of the house to your sister in a will or dies without a will - then yes, it is possible you will sharing the... Read more »
My mom lives in a nursing home here in NC with advance dementia. I need to get guardianship to conclude her business in NYC? Will NY state accept it if I am deemed her guardian here in NC?

I think many (if not all) of my fellow NC attorneys would be hesitant to answer this question as it seems to involve New York law. You should probably re-submit your question in the NY area of this site.
We found out by a outsider .her spouse blocked us from calling.this was 07/2020
No one yet has yet to even call our father can we sue

Just making sure I understand the question: are you asking if you can sue your brother-in-law for failing to inform you that your sister was ill and later died?
Well, you can sue anyone for anything, even if the lawsuit is frivolous and has no chance of success. But I don't see how... Read more »
Can I avoid prison at age 55? Can they go back to 1990 30 years ago and charge me with habitual today?

No, you can not avoid prison because of your age. You typically avoid prison by either not being convicted of something that requires prison time or convincing a Judge to be lenient when prision time is optional. As to how far they can go back, it depends on what you mean. If you mean can they... Read more »
My mother recently had a stroke and things have gotten strange between me and my brother...I asked my mother about the will and she said everything is set in stone and the inheritance will be divided between me and him...but for now things are being paid with our family's finances..which is... Read more »

Whether or not you inherit anything is not your decision nor something you are owed or due or have 'coming to you' or even anything you have a right to at this point. It is your families finances and / or property and as such they are allowed to do with it pretty much anything they want.... Read more »
Parent is on disability and Medicade/Medicare. Currently in recovery center in Calabash, NC. Dr. in SC stated he has dementia. Facility is planning on sending him home despite diagnosis. They suggested private home health care. I have not spoke to my father sine 2016 for about 30 minutes. Before... Read more »

Yes, it would likely apply but only to the extent that yourself and your immediate family are provided for. In other words you are likely only gonna be responsible for 'pops' to the tune of what ever is leftover each month after you have handled your personal and family obligations. If... Read more »
She has some medical issues but it is of very sound mind. He physically roughed her up 3 months ago and she went to a local women's shelter. He is stealing all manner of money from her as she is retired and has a good pension. She left home and is living with my friend, her son. Her husband... Read more »

She needs a family law/divorce attorney with experience in domestic violence issues, who practices in the county where she lives or where her husband lives.
Now the house is going up for probate I was the only one on the will how are they doing this what can I do they said if I didn't sign for their services they would have me arrested for exploitation because I take one of my doctor bill with his money The Power of Attorney papers said I could... Read more »

First and foremost you need to make sure you have a copy or original of the Will. In the Will an executor is named and that is the person who must go to the clerk and open the estate. If you are named as the beneficiary of the house your Uncle had then the clerk will make sure the executor gives... Read more »
3 siblings, mother with memory issues, 1 child is hiding will and other documents; other 2 siblings want to find out what the documents say

You. An file an application by affidavit with the clerk of court to try to get them to compel the sibling to file the will with the court.
Please feel free to let me know if you have any more questions.
Evan Lohr
Attorney
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and turn around and sell it to my wife and I to avoid a home getting it to pay for his assistance?

A person’s primary residence isn’t considered a countable asset for Medicaid purposes if they intend to return to the home (this is a very low standard to meet) so owning it wouldn’t impact his eligibility to qualify. Any cash that he received from the sale of the home would count against his... Read more »
Estranged daughter plays on sympathy of early dementia patient (mother). Other sibling is paying bills...finds out after the fact the check was written Raleigh NC not Mathews NC

Probably not an actual crime. However, protections need to be put in place. Is there a durable power of attorney? An agent under a durable power of attorney would be able to offer some protection in this type of situation. This needs to be done before the dementia progresses.
Recently my grandmothers daughter that was POA over all my grandmothers stuff passed away and the power fell to her eldest daughter. Her daughter that was POA had a life insurance policy that the eldest daughter up in New York claims she s taking over but needed a new signature from my grandmother... Read more »

If someone has the mental capacity to sign, but cannot physically sign on their own, it is acceptable just to make an "x", have someone assist with holding the pen, or can even direct someone to sign their name. However, if the person's mental state is such that he/she does not... Read more »

Maybe. You should visit with a N.C. Attorney. You might be able to save the value.
The majority of his coworkers were decades younger, and he suspects he was ousted due to his age. How can he prove that?

Very complex question with no easy or simple answer. If he believes he was terminated due to age, he will need to file with the EEOC. However, it is very important for him to consult with an experienced employment attorney.

Depends. The registering and filing requirements can be waived so it likely depends on how the POA was drafted. There have also been some fairly recent rule changes for POA's in NC, so it would be a good idea to consult with a local attorney.
My mom has dementia and is in a nursing home in NC. The home will not disclose any information to me because my brother didn't list me as family. He does not have guardianship nor does he have power of attorney. The nursing home says since he registered her, he makes the decision.

Obviously he can since he is apparently doing it - the real question is whether it is legal and what can you do about it?
The answer to that is while it is a crappy thing to do, it is likely legal unless some sort of fraud is being committed. However you can likely petition the court to... Read more »
1 was a bartender/server for 30 yrs. 10 yrs ago l was prescribed methadone for a medical condition not related to addiction & didn't need to work. Now, I'm fighting an addiction, and on a fixed income @ 62 yrs old. I'm in recovery & don't dare take the chance of being in... Read more »

Hope you tell your GOP Senators and Congressman about this as they seem to think people like you can just get insurance and need no help. There are "spend down" and other ways if you are "medically needy" of qualifying for medical assistance, but these vary by state. See if... Read more »
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