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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: In 50/50 custody, can mother refuse to allow children to be on fathers employer health insurance?

In the midst of divorce/custody case. Mother elected to not put children on her employer provided health insurance and instead has them on Medicaid. I am now receiving benefits through my employer and as of 01/01/2022 have enrolled myself and two children in this health care plan. Can mother refuse... View More

Sonja Aoun
Sonja Aoun
answered on Jan 4, 2022

Generally speaking, a court will prefer that a child has high-quality insurance if the parents can afford it. For that reason, health insurance premium payments for children are taken into consideration when calculating child support.

You don't mention whether there is a court order...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Can I get a woman who tried to run my 8 year old and me off the road listed as an excluded adult on the visitation order

This a a woman who stalked me and my child for years and made threats against me. My ex husband was abusive and has a history of domestic violence. He has been arrested for DMV. He will use this woman and other circumstances to put my son in danger. The woman tried to run my child and me off the... View More

Sonja Aoun
Sonja Aoun
answered on Dec 14, 2021

Generally speaking, you may be able to get a protective order for stalking, but the protective order would have to include your child to prevent her from being present during visitation.

If you don't have enough evidence for a protective order, you may be able to get an order that...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Can grandparents who have never had a relationship with their grandchild of a single parent get awarded visitation?

I cut off all contact with my toxic and mentally ill parents several years ago, but they have continued to stalk me. I am concerned about them possibly suing for visitation once they find out they have a grandchild.

What are the chances that the family court would force me to allow them to... View More

James H. Wilson Jr.
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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Dec 13, 2021

In Virginia, grandparents have no custody and visitation rights by virtue of the familial relationship. Grandparents are among the class of interested persons who can ask for a custody or visitation determination, but will not obtain any rights against the wishes of a biological parent who has not... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Petitioner of no-contact order had me violated for text messages I sent her, but she texted me too before and after then

The petitioner alerted the court that I had sent her text messages. This was a violation of a no-contact protective order AND a no contact condition of a sentence that included 12 months of suspended time. However, she also sent text messages and engaged in several lengthy text conversations with... View More

Daniel P Leavitt
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answered on Nov 20, 2021

Sounds like you're definitely in violation. Hire a lawyer to help minimize what they do.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Do I have to let my 2 year old and 3 year old go back to my husband and his girlfriend's home after she failed cps drug

Test. I have schedule an appointment to file for custody on October 7th. There is no custody agreement between is at this point.

James H. Wilson Jr.
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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Oct 1, 2021

In the absence of a court order or written agreement, both parents have equal rights to, and responsibilities for, their minor children. You question does not address how CPS became involved with your husband's girlfriend, why she was subject to testing, what drugs were involved, where the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: If I had a marital settlement agreement in Florida is it possible to have custody modified in Va

Ex filed registration in VA and immediately turned into modification of custody and JD&R proceeded without proper jurisdiction. Is that possible?

James H. Wilson Jr.
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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Sep 24, 2021

A party to a court order may domesticate or register that order in Virginia if the Virginia court can exercise jurisdiction under the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Enforcement Act. Notice of the proposed domestication or registration is served on the other party so he or she could contest... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Can My Father Still control what I do at 18 years of age?

I'm 18 years old and live in Virginia. I want to move in with my aunt but my Dad says I can't and that he can still control what I do and where I live, is this true? Can he really still control my life? Will I have to take him to court?

Michael Christopher Miller
Michael Christopher Miller
answered on Aug 5, 2021

If you are 18, you can live wherever you want.

1 Answer | Asked in Medical Malpractice, Personal Injury, Child Custody and Education Law for Virginia on
Q: medical malpractice, failing to give proper diagnosis

As a Single Mother of 4 children who all have lifetime disabilities including myself. Lets start with Myself. I was finally approved from the SSA with having a diagnosis of OCD, Bi Polar II disorder, PTSD, Depression, Social Anxiety, Other mood disorders, Autism spectrum disorder and Schizophrenia.... View More

Tim Akpinar
Tim Akpinar
answered on Jun 7, 2021

A Virginia attorney could respond best, but your post remains open for two weeks. You provided lots of detailed information. In reading your post, it looks like the central issue is eligibility of your son for a Special Education program... and a misdiagnosis was involved. If that is correct, one... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: I share 50/50 legal custody and have visitation in VA, I recently remarried. Can my wife to get kid info on my behalf?

My new wife has been around the kids since 2018. Until recently my ex included her in everything and authorized her to full access. We were all friendly happy coparents until marriage- now my ex is hiring a lawyer to keep my wife away from the kids who LOVE her.

Sonja Aoun
Sonja Aoun
answered on Apr 8, 2021

I understand your question to be whether you can authorize your new wife to access your children's information on your behalf. You can certainly add your wife as another person who can receive information or contact the school or doctor's office, for example, but the children's... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Virginia on
Q: I have joint custody and pay child support. The mother is withholding the kids. Can I put child support in escrow?

On 1/25/2021, the court ruled on joint custody and child support. The mother found out I am in a new relationship and now refuses to adhere to the legal agreement and is demanding I bring her everything in my home I bought our kids. She never fully complied with the order; I do not know where she... View More

Gary D. Godman
Gary D. Godman
answered on Mar 25, 2021

It's a good theory but ultimately not allowed - support and visitation are two separate issues in the eyes of the court. Support should still be paid as ordered, and a show-cause may be appropriate for the violation of the visitation order. Speak with a local family law attorney about how to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: In VA, what are the consequences of violating a court order regarding overnight contact with paramour? See more info.

The paperwork states, “Neither party shall expose the child to a paramour on an overnight basis..” Overnight is defined as of 8pm-8am. Would violating this order, with the support of evidence/proof be grounds to overturn a existing custody agreement?

Gary D. Godman
Gary D. Godman
answered on Mar 25, 2021

If someone is violating a court order, the remedy is to file a "motion for a rule to show cause" - basically, a request for the other side to be held in contempt of court. Some violations may give rise to grounds to amend a custody order. Consult with a family law attorney in your area... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: How do I prepare for a hearing over mutually agreed upon child support and custody in official divorce decree?

My ex spouse filed for child support before we divorced (I have made every payment) and during our divorce we renegotiated our payments VIA our LAWYERS. I filed the official divorce decree that was signed by a JUDGE with the juvenile court in Chesapeake, VA which I was told to do by my lawyers so... View More

James H. Wilson Jr.
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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Mar 16, 2021

Parents cannot effectively bargain away their children's rights to child support. While a court will consider a written agreement between the parties, it is not binding on the court, and the court can order whatever amount is deemed appropriate after calculating the presumptively correct... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: What kind of lawyer do I need to talk to about custody of children?

Grandmother has physical custody of two children, parents share joint custody. Mother is in jail, and father wants to know his rights about getting custody of his children.

James H. Wilson Jr.
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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Mar 2, 2021

Custody cases in Virginia are routinely handled by family law lawyers and divorce lawyers.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Can I get full custody after I settled for joint custody in the divorce?
Kelly L. DiCorrado
Kelly L. DiCorrado
answered on Mar 1, 2021

Child custody, visitation and support matters can always be amended, provided that there is a material change in circumstance since the entry of the last order. Material change in circumstance can be a gray area in the law and I recommend that you seek legal advice from an experienced family law... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: can I have the form in Virginia to request a motion to dismiss a preliminary removal order?

I'm just looking for the form needed to request a motion for dismissal of a removal order in Virginia.

F. Paul Maloof
F. Paul Maloof
answered on Feb 27, 2021

Go to the family court website for the form that you need, or call the clerk's office on Monday for the website link.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for Virginia on
Q: Can the NC parent add our daughter to his insurance if I have legal custody and already carry coverage?

Recently, I reopened a CS order due to 1.5 years of non-payment based on a mutual agreement with the NC parent. Now that he is being legally ordered to pay CS, he mentioned adding our daughter to his health insurance. Since he is unable to make legal decisions based on the custody order, I... View More

Kelly L. DiCorrado
Kelly L. DiCorrado
answered on Feb 19, 2021

In order to properly answer your question, there is more information that is needed. I would recommend that you consult with an experienced family law attorney to review the current issues you are facing with the child support and health insurance.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Custodial parent is moving 200+ miles away for a new job. Who is responsible for transporting the child for visits?
Kelly L. DiCorrado
Kelly L. DiCorrado
answered on Feb 19, 2021

Typically a court would have the parties share travel; however, there are a lot of factors that can cause a court to deviate from sharing travel expenses. More information would be needed to provide a proper analysis. I would recommend that you consult with an experienced family law attorney to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: I have joint custody of my 2 children 16 and 13. I am filing for change of custody can they stay with me until court dat

There was sexual assault in the home. Mother no longer lives there and there is a court case with the stepfather begining. Both children have come to me and dont want to go back to there mothers. Because the place they live now the have no privacy or have there own room. Plus the other adults are... View More

Kelly L. DiCorrado
Kelly L. DiCorrado
answered on Feb 19, 2021

Typically, the current order that is in place still stands and must be followed until a judge rules differently. However, it sounds as though you may have a good faith basis to file for an emergency hearing (that would advance the case on the docket) to address the current situation. I would... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Can ex plan activities on my visitation days?

Can ex plan activities on my scheduled visitation days? My 'Parenting Time' is every other weekend but we have an Activities section in our agreement. It states "The parties shall equally share any reasonable and necessary expenses for agreed upon extracurricular activities for the... View More

Michael Christopher Miller
Michael Christopher Miller
answered on Dec 29, 2020

No. Your time is yours. See Eichelberger v. Eichelberger, 2 Va.App. 409, 345 S.E.2d 10 (Va. App., 1986).

The expenses are "agreed upon" expenses. Don't agree to expenses the require activities on your weekend if you don't want to do them.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: Non custodial father won’t return kids. We weren’t married, no custody papers, and he hasn’t signed birth certificates.

What steps do I take in getting them back home?

Afsana Chowdhury
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Afsana Chowdhury
answered on Sep 10, 2020

You should consult an attorney to review all the facts of your situation and determine if filing a police report would be a good idea and also discuss your options of having formal custody.

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