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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Domestic Violence and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Will NC force child support?

My child and I have a restraining order against her father. DV survivor. I receive SNAP and Medicaid benefits. He has not responded to being served, but worried NC will force child support before I can petition to have him removed for abandonment to keep him away permanently. Advice? How can i... View More

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answered on Jan 3, 2024

In North Carolina, child support is generally determined by guidelines that take into account both parents' incomes, the number of children, and other relevant factors. The fact that you have a restraining order against the child's father and have been a survivor of domestic violence may... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: My daughter's 12 she has been staying with her dad for about 2years she no longer wants to stay there and doesn't want

To go back over there with him. She's with me at the moment what actions do I need to take to make sure he can't take off with her or try to take her out of school and block me access to her. We have no custody order or anything in place.

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answered on Jan 2, 2024

If there is no existing custody order, it's crucial to establish a formal custody arrangement to protect your rights and ensure the well-being of your daughter. To initiate this process, you may consider filing a petition for custody in the appropriate family court. The court will then... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: I have a temporary consent order for Christmas Day to see my children but the judge never signed it and neither did my e

My ex-husband’s lawyer never signed it just my lawyer him and I should I see them today or could I get in trouble?

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answered on Dec 25, 2023

If the temporary consent order for Christmas Day was not signed by the judge and your ex-husband's lawyer, it may not be legally binding. It's essential to prioritize compliance with the law and the terms of any valid court orders.

In this situation, it's advisable to...
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1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Is there a lawyer that excepts cases regarding family or elderly law?
Tim Akpinar
Tim Akpinar
answered on Nov 19, 2024

A North Carolina attorney could advise best, but your question remains open for three weeks. Yes, there are many of them. By now, you've probably already been searching on your own. You could supplement your efforts with the "Find a Lawyer" tab above, as well as the attorney referral... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Military Law, Divorce and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Am I responsible for my husbands debt while we are going through separation and divorce? We live in NC.

He purchased a house but did not place my name in deed. What are my rights? I have lived in another state and my kids and I didn’t move until about 1-2 yrs after his house purchase.. What is your advice?

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answered on Oct 31, 2024

In North Carolina, debts accumulated during your marriage are generally considered joint responsibilities, even if only your husband’s name is on them. This means you might be held accountable for these debts during and after your divorce. However, if the debt was for his personal expenses and... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: In NC does signing a parenting agreement with a non biological family member automatically take away your parental right

The first hearing for temporary custody lawsuit I signed a little paper saying 'Parenting Agreement' in which their lawyer presented as a minimum visitation schedule (which was more than it had been) and twice weekly telephone calls, including allowing them temporary custody. I assumed... View More

Anna Farmer
Anna Farmer
answered on Oct 15, 2024

In North Carolina, only parents have a right to custody of their children. This means that if a non-parent goes to court to get custody of your child, the judge will give the parent priority. However, the judge may give custody rights to the non-parent if the judge decides you are unfit or not... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Civil Rights and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: How can I legally live apart from my parents at 17? And, if not, can the police make me go back?

My parents used to not let me out of the house at all if I had a grade below a 90, they would also take my phone. This may not seem bad, but it led to me being very depressed and suicidal since I couldn't make friends, and I was studying from when I woke up until I went to bed, while watching... View More

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answered on Sep 12, 2024

Living apart from your parents at 17 in North Carolina without their consent can be challenging. Generally, until you turn 18, your parents are legally responsible for you. This means that if you leave home without permission, your parents could involve the police, who might bring you back if they... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Civil Rights for North Carolina on
Q: married when baby conceived. Alleged father in Chicago, me NC. Hearing held w/out me. Sole custody 15 m. Son removed!?

Judge extremely biased, new too. I ran for city council when he ran for judge. I was for his opponent, have pictures with his opponent and his family. 15 months paternity wasn’t established and his father (alleged father never contributed a penny to help his son or any kind of support) he was... View More

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answered on Aug 31, 2024

It sounds like you're in an incredibly difficult situation, and it's understandable to feel overwhelmed and frustrated. The legal and emotional aspects you're facing are complex, especially with the history you’ve described involving the judge, the alleged father, and the other... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Civil Rights and Juvenile Law for North Carolina on
Q: How can I move out at 17?

I am 17 and looking to move out. I have a job and a way to get to my work. I have somone who would provide a place for me to live. I would go to school in the district in which the house is. I already pay for most of my things, so that would not be a big change. As I live in NC, the law says I can... View More

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answered on Jul 27, 2024

Moving out at 17 can be challenging, especially if you want to avoid legal complications. In North Carolina, the law states that you need to be emancipated through a court process to live independently without parental consent. If you just leave and your parents report you as missing, the police... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Real Estate Law for North Carolina on
Q: Can I enter my house as I wish, if I own the house and have owned the house long before my marriage.
Ben Corcoran
Ben Corcoran
answered on May 7, 2024

From a real estate perspective, if you own the house, then yes, you have every right to use it. However, other factors may prevent you from doing this, such as court orders. I would advise speaking with a local attorney since this appears to be related to a divorce.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Elder Law for North Carolina on
Q: Why shouldn't I have gotten guardian ship of my husband I wasn't in a nursing home then

I'm in a nursing home now because I fell and dislocated my shoulder and fractured it 4 times my husband is in a nursing home in NC and I want him moved with me his brother and sister currently have guardian ship I don't know how they got it I am the one who took care of my husband when we... View More

Ethan A. Trice
Ethan A. Trice
answered on Apr 20, 2024

It isn't possible to answer with any degree of specificity why you were not granted guardianship without seeing the court file. This is a situation where you need to schedule an appointment with an attorney with the paperwork you have.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Real Estate Law for North Carolina on
Q: I want to sell my house and am married. I have tried serving divorce papers on my spouse several times and can't locate

The service took place several years ago and I cannot locate my spouse (somewhere in NY, I think)

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answered on Apr 9, 2024

You may need to hire a NC attorney to file a Partition Action. The other owner's money might be held by the

Court until he claims it, and withdraws it by Order of the Court.

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law and Real Estate Law for North Carolina on
Q: My husband wants to remove my name from the deed of our home for his Last Will purposes.

He asked me to meet with his Estate planner regarding the plans for his will. He mentioned on having the deed solely under his name so it wont be hard to divide his estate between me, his kids, grandkids and great grandkids. We've been married for 9 years and we are living in a $600,000k... View More

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answered on Mar 19, 2024

Hire your own attorney for advice. The titles to all real properties need to be searched. More than likely you will not want convey away your estate in the house.

1 Answer | Asked in Contracts, Family Law, Real Estate Law and Appeals / Appellate Law for North Carolina on
Q: The judge has made his ruling. Husband has no claims to wife's house. During appeal, can husband file a Lis Pendens?

Ex husband and wife completed a bench trial for a Breach of Contract Suit. The contract was an executed notarized separation and property settlement agreement. In the agreement, wife received the house (was quitclaim deeded to wife and notarized). In exchange, the husband received all the... View More

Ben Corcoran
Ben Corcoran
answered on Feb 12, 2024

I don't see a reason why not; a sale would likely be held up regardless if the closing attorney is doing their job properly. But a list pendens seems proper here.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for North Carolina on
Q: Do I have to speak with CPS on behalf of a friend, or will they subpoena me to court?

I live in NC and one of my friends and her husband were arrested for Domestic Violence. She gave CPS my number as a reference. Do I have to speak with them when they call? Can I remain neutral or can they subpoena me and force me to speak to them or the courts?

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on Jan 30, 2024

You may try to remain neutral. That will not necessarily prevent a party from subpoenaing you as a witness. That is a court order and you will either have to comply or file a motion to quash the subpoena.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: My husband died while our division of assets was still being worked out, due to a prolonged illness.

We are divorced 2 years. Can the divorce be overturned?

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answered on Nov 13, 2023

No, but if you mean that he died while the division of your assets were still being worked out means that you filed for equitable distribution and that was still a live claim that was incomplete when he passed, then the personal representative of the estate should be able to continue see that... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Real Estate Law, Divorce and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Husband in North Carolina sold property in 2020 without my consent. He owned the property prior to marriage.

Prior to marriage I did not sign free trader agreement or prenuptial agreement. The sell of the house took place in 2020 was undisclosed to me during that time. We are now divorced as of April 2023.

Ben Corcoran
Ben Corcoran
answered on Oct 19, 2023

All that you would have been signing away was your right to claim a life estate on the property in the event of his passing. That right was extinguished upon divorce.

I cannot speak to the laws of other states regarding marital property but the money he made from the sale might have become...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Is it legal to back date a separation in NC to divorce prior to one year apart?
N'kia (NLN)
N'kia (NLN)
answered on Oct 19, 2023

Intentionally making false statement of facts to a court is unlawful. In North Carolina, to be eligible for a divorce, spouses must have been separated for at least one year (with the intent to remain separate and apart). To be valid, a divorce complaint cannot be filed before the spouses are... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Elder Law for North Carolina on
Q: How do I check to see if my step mother has petitioned to the clerk regarding my Father’s ( her husband) mental capacit?

I live in Canada and my Father is a US Citizen in North Carolina and there is an issue of trust

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answered on Oct 10, 2023

In North Carolina, to check if your stepmother has filed a petition regarding your father's mental capacity, you can contact the Clerk of Superior Court's office in the county where your father resides. They manage guardianship and competency proceedings. Remember, guardianship... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: In order for medicaid to get child support wouldn't the father need to be on child's birth certificate?
John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Sep 24, 2023

No, any determination of paternity will do.

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