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0 Answers | Asked in Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Can my ex-wife file child support against me for a child she had with a man while we were separated? Raleigh, NC

We have been separated since 2020 and both entered different relationships. My ex wife got pregnant in 2021 by a man and gave birth early 2022. We were finally able to be divorced on 2/2023 but now she is trying to file child support against me. How is this even possible? Could she have legally... Read more »

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Q: Single mother of 16 y/o, both on Medicaid. Father fled the state and never paid support. Can mother force father to pay?

Medicaid supposedly was going to go after the father for support. It's been years and no one has ever followed up on it. Mother has never received a dime from the father. Can she sue for child support despite being on Medicaid?

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Q: How do I prove my kids father is lying about his monthly income? The court lowered my child support and arrears pmts.

I have 2 teenagers and my oldest dropped off at age 18, I was getting $800 for child support then $200 for the $48,000 in arrears.

0 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Do I have a strong case in gaining custody?

Would I have a better chance of getting child custody if me and my wife own a nice home and stable jobs while my ex lives in a small camper with poor conditions and a large number of animals and no steady jobs. My exs boyfriend is also a drinker and I jave been told by my son that the boyfriend... Read more »

2 Answers | Asked in Bankruptcy, Estate Planning, Child Support and Collections for North Carolina on
Q: A creditor has a summary judgement against me. I had a lawyer look over exemption paperwork. What's next?

I live in NC. House is fully protected by TBE. All assets are 100% fully protected. No wage garnishment in NC and I cash my paper check at a check cashing business. I deal in cash only. I have no bank account. I tried to negotiate with them before they sued and because they didn't work with... Read more »

Lynn Ellen Coleman
Lynn Ellen Coleman
answered on Nov 13, 2022

If the judgment is accruing post judgment interest, you may wish to consider filing bankruptcy or settling rather than waiting it out. Judgments are good for 10 years and are easily renewed for another 10 years. Your only dangers in waiting them out is that your assets may appreciate and become not... Read more »

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: Can I apply for child support from spouse after getting separated for 2 years, without getting a divorce?

My spouse and I have been separated for 2 years, can I get a court order for child support for our 4 year old child without applying for a divorce?

Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
answered on Sep 12, 2022

Sure. There is no requirement that both actions are handled together. However, I do question why you haven't been divorced yet. Many family law attorneys offer a "flat-fee" divorce package that isn't too expensive. Alternatively, you can attempt to file it yourself.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law, Child Support and Juvenile Law for North Carolina on
Q: Can I be forced to continue financially and legally supporting my 18 year old if he's still in high school?

Long story short: He sexually abused my daughter, threatened to kill me over a misunderstanding, has been convicted (juvenile), is on probation in a sex-offender treatment facility for the last year and a half, and will turn 18 March 24th of this year. He already told me he will most likely... Read more »

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Jan 20, 2022

If you think he will harm your daughter again if he returns, you CANNOT let him back in the home. You may need to contact Child Protective Services, and let them know the situation. Perhaps they can find a foster home for him. Financially, you and his father are still responsible for him. CPS may... Read more »

2 Answers | Asked in Bankruptcy and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: What can I ask

I Don't know what I can say

Stuart Nachbar
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Stuart Nachbar
answered on Nov 17, 2021

If you are speaking to your counsel, be truthful. If you are asking a question in this forum, be as succinct as possible and detailed, but do not divulge personal identifiers

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: My husbands lawyer requested a discovery. Can I request discovery/interrogatories without a lawyer
David Allan King
David Allan King
answered on Oct 10, 2021

Yes, you can send them interrogatories (questions), requests for admission, and requests for production without having a lawyer. Essentially, you are your own lawyer.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: Can I file motion for discovery on a child custody case?

Father filed for child custody and support. We’ve had 50/50 since. Can I file motion for discovery to see what his plan of attack is going to be? I can’t seem to find the form.

Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
answered on Mar 17, 2021

Yes, you can file discovery requests to seek relevant information to the case. However, there is no "form" for discovery requests, so it is something you will have to generate yourself (or more likely - pay an attorney to generate).

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: My Wife's family all have COVID. She wants to bring our 1 yr old to their home for a full week. Do I have legal options?

My soon to be ex wife is taking my son out of state to her parents home where at least 4 people have COVID. Are there any legal routes I can follow if my soon contracts COVID while there?

Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
answered on Mar 5, 2021

If you don't have an existing custody case, I would consider filing one ASAP. If you have an existing case, you may want to file a Motion for Emergency Custody before she leaves alleging that the child will be exposed to a substantial risk of bodily injury. Some judges may agree that such a... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: If I decide to agree on a child support arrangement with the other parent, will my daughter still receive Medicaid?
Amanda Bowden Johnson
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Amanda Bowden Johnson
answered on Jan 28, 2021

If your child is receiving Medicaid, they will typically force child support whether you want it or not and you won't get to 'agree' to an amount, it will be set according to the child support guidelines. So it should not affect the Medicaid eligibility. Best of luck.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support and Domestic Violence for North Carolina on
Q: I'm trying to find pro bono legal support for a friend experiencing an alcoholic/abusive husband. Location: 28117

Mooresville, NC location. Couple has one son together, 13 years old. They own a home in husband's name. She owns her own business. They have 2 dogs and 2 cars.

David Allan King
David Allan King
answered on Jan 21, 2021

I'm not clear what the question is. There are some pro bono programs for domestic abuse victims. They usually focus on restraining orders and the like, rather than property and divorce. They also usually have more cases than they have resources to handle.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Adoption, Child Custody and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: I'm recently dealing with dss my son is going to be getting adopted out will I be able to get him back
Amanda Bowden Johnson
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Amanda Bowden Johnson
answered on Jan 13, 2021

The short answer is - no. In order for a child to be adopted, your parental rights would need to be terminated. The best chance of you getting your child back is if this process is not yet complete and you hire an attorney. Best of luck.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Military Law for North Carolina on
Q: 100% disabled veteran. Him and wife divorce. They have 1 kid and a house. Is she entitled to his disability if divorce.

He had been getting 100% military disability before they married.

Paul Ylvisaker
Paul Ylvisaker
answered on Jan 4, 2021

No. By federal law is not divisible or an asset of the marriage to be divided. However, the income can be used in calculating child support in most states.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Can I go back to court to undo a divorce agreement that I had with my ex husband?

My ex husband and I had a written agreement that he will be claiming our 2 older kids and I’ll be claiming the 2 little ones.that’s was my only option at that time (3 years ago) since I didn’t have and Attorny and couldn’t afford to have one. He only pay court order child support. He... Read more »

Amanda Bowden Johnson
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Amanda Bowden Johnson
answered on Jan 4, 2021

It depends on whether the agreement was properly drafted and executed and whether it was incorporated into your divorce judgment. Typically, you likely will not be able to change it. Even if you could change, it you'd likely need some grounds to do so which based on the facts in your... Read more »

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Criminal Law and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Paternity established in virginia, child lives in maryland, 17, He may not be my biological child. Maryland? or Virgina

My child works full time, is currently 17 years old, and I've been paying support for him his whole life. His mother and I separated when he was 2. We have a great relationship and will continue to but as he gets older he looks just like my former best friend. I will continue to be apart of... Read more »

Amanda Bowden Johnson
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Amanda Bowden Johnson
answered on Dec 27, 2020

The only legitimate reason to do at DNA test now at this incredibly late date would be simply to know the truth. If the child is 17 and you plan to be a part of the child's life regardless of the result, then logically speaking, doing a DNA test now is likely a bad idea and just a waste of... Read more »

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Can the custodial parent take away visitation if you’re behind on child support?

Income decreased due to covid. Still paying monthly but struggling to pay the full amount. Need my income legally re evaluated. But she won’t let me see my child.

Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
answered on Dec 1, 2020

No, visitation and the payment of child support are completely independent of one another. Failure to pay support is not a valid reason to withhold visitation. If visitation is being denied, you may have to file a motion for contempt for her violation of the custody order.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: If you’re behind on child support payments, can the custodial parent take away my visitation?

My hours have been reduced due to covid and I am struggling to pay the full amount of child support. I’ve communicated this and have been paying what I can monthly as well as continuing to pay medical insurance for him.

Technically, I am behind in the monthly amount, and need to have my... Read more »

Amanda Bowden Johnson
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Amanda Bowden Johnson
answered on Dec 1, 2020

Non-payment of child support is not grounds to withhold visitation. However, if she is seeking a protective order and has legitimate grounds to do so then that would potentially be grounds to withhold visitation but she would have to have a legitimate and reasonable fear for the safety of herself... Read more »

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