My husband and I have been married for 14 years. Both of us have committed adultery during the marriage but he left me and our son who is now 11 twice during the 14 years. Now we both want divorce and I want alimony due to low finances on my end. He wants joint custody, only so that he doesn't have... Read more »
You have a lot of facts here, and they are all important to the questions you ask. You need an attorney to address these. Go to legal aid, or find the money to hire someone. If he has had sex with you after learning of your infidelity, he can't sue you on grounds of adultery. If he left you for...Read more »
I have two step-children. One is 20 and the other will be 19 soon. My husband is still paying the same amount as he was before the oldest turned 19. I'm just wondering if child support will end automatically when the youngest turns 19 or if there is anything he needs to do? We still intended to... Read more »
Hello, no, child support does not automatically terminate when children turn 19. When a child turns 19, you should file for a modification to have it recalculated or terminated depending on if it is one child or several one is paying support for per a court order. So the answer to your question is...Read more »
I am the mother of a child. Her dad and I were never married. We did sign an affidavit of paternity at birth. I have started a case with DHR for child support. Am I automatically considered the custodial parent or do I have to petition for custody? The child primarily lives with me and I am... Read more »
Hello. He needs to file for contempt, also known as "Rule Nisi" as soon as possible. The age of majority is 19 in Alabama, not 18. So, she has at least one more year to pay child support. He should seek counsel and speak with her/him about the best course of action given his specific set of...Read more »
My ex wife has custody of our 13 year old son, but he's been living with me for over a year because of her job. She doesn't want me to pay child support anymore since I'm supporting him full time. I've called the courts and they say I need a hand written letter stating why I... Read more »
Hello, what you would need to file is a modification petition. Typically there is a filing fee paid, but you could also file an Affidavit of Substantial Hardship in hopes of having the filing fee waived. Judge's make that determination within his/her discretion. Whether you file for modification or...Read more »
My spouse pays over $600 per month in child support for one child, the mother has since moved in with her mother, works a full time job, and receives state and government assistance. Is it mandatory that she report her income? Or would he need to file a petition?
I signed my son father up for child support thru the dhr office in August of 2018 and they keep telling me that they haven’t verified his address when I gave them his right address and his work address. Is there anything I can do to move the process alone faster ?
Hello, if you and the father are getting a divorce, then child support should be addressed. If you and the father were never married, then when he stops providing financial support equal to or greater than what the state believe his amount of support obligation for the child. Your child is owed a...Read more »
The ex will agree. He is already an absent father. We have been separated for 7 years. The child is 8. He is only now consenting to divorce because he wants to get remarried. I want nothing from him but a divorce as well. The child does not have a relationship with his father, due to his absence.
Hello, there is no way to file for an uncontested divorce without an attorney. You also cannot waive child support obligations without an extremely good reason. All three child support forms are mandatory, not optional, and must be filed with the divorce filings. You should have a consultation with...Read more »
halfing his cs at that time. Based on what I have read on here he cannot just do that; however, he has always just given me a check every month rather than it being held from his check so I don't know how this affects what happens when my oldest turns 19. Also, the younger child will be 19 next... Read more »
If he half his child support he will be in contempt of court. Wait for him to half his payment a couple of times and then file a petition for contempt and to recalculate child support. The Alabama child support case law that allowed for post secondary support was struck down as unconstitutional....Read more »
I pay $600 monthly (in the documents said i should pay 160 total but i was adding money a few times tru the years until i got to this amount), this is the total for both kids but papers don't specify anything for each except 160 total , my kid are from same ex wife. They live in alabama, i live in... Read more »
The only way to get out of child support for you child that has aged out is to go back to court and recalculate child support for one child. Unless you can reach a blind agreement with the mother on the amount to be paid and filed an uncontested modification you are going to be in a position where...Read more »
Father needs to file a petition for custody and visitation. When DHR files a child support case it is for child support and child support only. Custody and visitation are different subjects and unless the father raised them in a pleading, which apparently he did not, then he leaves the courthouse...Read more »
We got divorced in Alabama but now she lives in Georgia and I in Florida. My daughter just moved in with me 2 weeks ago. She is 17 years old and about to graduate school early. I need the support so i can help her go to collage. I do not even want support from mother its just what i pay would help... Read more »
Hello, these heat way to stop child support is through court approval. It is for your protection to do so, otherwise you risk still having to pay the last two years of child support. Arrears will build and it is easier if you go to court now to stop it. The other issue you have is that all three of...Read more »
Me && my childs father went to court in September about custody. He put himself on child support, but now we are finally trying to get back on good terms && moving back in with each other && want the child support to stop. Can we agree to stop it, or is it the law in Alabama that child support... Read more »
Hello, you would need to go back to court to have the child support and possibly custody modified. It helps that you both agree; however, child support is not waived just because mom and dad have had a change of heart. Please contact counsel in your local area to help navigate the court system and...Read more »
Only a court with proper jurisdiction can make any change to child support. No court has the ability even if good cause is shown to forgive child support once the time for its payment has passed. If the payor of child support is in an accident and slips into a coma for a year child support will...Read more »
The father knows that there is a higher percentage of men on child support than women. The mother has the child during the week but refuses to pay for any medical bills, any milk, or anything else the child needs. She puts all bills off on ther father expecting him to pay for it
Hello. Fitness or unfitness is not what child support is based on. The custody arrangement determines who should receive the child support, then the number is calculated based on the Child Support Guidelines. As far as expenses go, the child support order may address who pays for what. If it...Read more »
Hello. Since you have two children, you would need to file for a modification of child support with reasons being she will be 19 in a few months. I would reccomend having a consultation with an attorney in your area. My experience has been these motions are set for a hearing so a judge can either...Read more »
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