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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: I have a temporary consent order for Christmas Day to see my children but the judge never signed it and neither did my e

My ex-husband’s lawyer never signed it just my lawyer him and I should I see them today or could I get in trouble?

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answered on Dec 25, 2023

If the temporary consent order for Christmas Day was not signed by the judge and your ex-husband's lawyer, it may not be legally binding. It's essential to prioritize compliance with the law and the terms of any valid court orders.

In this situation, it's advisable to...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Family Law, Gov & Administrative Law and Municipal Law for North Carolina on
Q: If a building inspector deems a house is against the building code, will they get dss involved for child safety?
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answered on Sep 13, 2023

A building inspector's primary role is to assess and enforce compliance with building codes and regulations related to the structural and safety aspects of a building or dwelling. Building inspectors typically focus on issues such as structural integrity, electrical systems, plumbing, and fire... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, International Law, Divorce and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: My wife and I are getting divorced we've been separated since March. She's moving to Canada on Wednesday

Before asking for a divorce and even being physically separated she had a emotional affair with a man in Canada who she knew from when she was younger who she is now in love with and moving to live with. She gave me notice of this last Wednesday and she wants to be able to take my son there during... View More

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answered on Aug 6, 2023

To protect yourself as a parent and ensure your rights are safeguarded, it is essential to consult with a family law attorney who can assist you in negotiating a custody agreement that serves the best interests of your child and takes into account the international relocation aspect. Proper legal... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: I have joint custody with my ex. He recently moved and won’t provide his new address

I have primary custody he only receives visitation every other weekend. I asked for the new address and he refuses to send it. Does he have to give me the new address before I release her into his custody?

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answered on Jul 7, 2023

if your ex is refusing to provide you with his new address in violation of your custody agreement or court order, you may have legal options available to address the situation. You have grounds to take legal action, such as filing a motion with the court to enforce the custody agreement or seeking... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: How does my dad get full custody of me ?

My mother yells at me alot and makes me cry and she makes me feel like I am nothing and I dont want to be around her toxic environment

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answered on Jul 5, 2023

I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing a difficult situation. To pursue full custody, your father would typically need to file a custody petition with the appropriate court in North Carolina. The court will consider various factors, including the best interests of the child, when... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Contracts, Family Law, Child Custody and Legal Malpractice for North Carolina on
Q: I am unsure how to proceed with this situation

Last Fall of 2022, I hired a local law firm to aid in my case of parental termination of my son's Father's rights. The other parent has been absent since 2013. They have not paid any child support, they have not made contact. The problem is that the case is from a different state to where... View More

Joel Gary Selik
Joel Gary Selik
answered on Jun 14, 2023

You may need to find a new attorney before getting the retainer back as that will likely be contested.

If the attorney refuses to provide a reasonable basis to keep the retainer, you may consider lawsuit in small claims or see if the bar association has a fee dispute process.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: How can I remove a non-biological father off of a child’s birth certificate when that individual is fighting me on it?

The biological father wants to be involved & I would like to legally change the child’s name as well & the non biological father is also contesting that.

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Jun 3, 2023

if the biological father wants to be involved, then HE needs to file an action for paternity and child custody. The non-biological father will have to be made a party to the action, if he is on the child's birth certificate. After paternity is established, the child's name can be changed,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Appeals / Appellate Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: At my adjucation hearing 1st time on, CPS filed for non-secure custody on half truths and lies that I can prove...

Says CPS worker saw me alone with my 2.5yr old. Failed to say where or who saw me. It was the supervisor and we were walking at home on the drive. My mother and 7mth old not far behind but around the bend you couldn't see. She willfully failed to discharge her duties to make sure I wasn't... View More

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Apr 28, 2023

You should have presented that evidence in your adjudication hearing for the court’s consideration. If you did not, you may have missed the opportunity to do so.

If you did present that evidence during the hearing, you can appeal the court decision.

As for “filing” against...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: If a man abandons or signs over his rights to a previous daughter, will a judge grant custodial rights of our children?

He was physically active in his previous daughters life for several years then decided to sign over rights because he did not want to pay child support. WE ARE LOCATED IN NC

N'kia (NLN)
N'kia (NLN)
answered on Apr 18, 2023

A judge will look at the totality of the circumstances and decide what's in the "best interest" of the child who is the subject of the custody litigation. In theory, terminating a parent's rights for one child could be in that child's best interest, while giving the same... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: I'm the primary legal and physical parent for my children.my current order only stayed I must notify other parent of

Contact information/ address in writing. There are no geographic limits except for traveling for vacation by giving other parent notice and itenary. Does this mean I can relocate out of state at anytime

Nova Levante
Nova Levante
answered on Apr 15, 2023

Based on the information provided, you are the primary legal and physical parent for your children, and the current order only requires you to notify the other parent of your contact information and address in writing. There are no specific geographic limits in the order, except for when you travel... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Adoption and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: My parents adopted my cousin and they live in Georgia. I want to take custody of her and move her to NC with me. Can I?

She is 16 years old. I am 28 and married. I have a 2 bedroom apartment. My parents are willing to let her go, just not to me. I want to be able to register her in school here in NC. What can I legally do to help her. She is being abused and neglected. CPS has already been called, but my parents... View More

N'kia (NLN)
N'kia (NLN)
answered on Apr 7, 2023

You may want to speak with attorneys who practice in Georgia. Although there's always room for exceptions, the laws of the state where the child resides usually govern.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: I filed to register a foreign order in smithfield do I need to wait for a court date to file a motion to show cause ?

I have custody and my exwife violates the court order constantly

N'kia (NLN)
N'kia (NLN)
answered on Apr 5, 2023

When registration papers are filed to register a foreign order, the only issue the new state will usually deal with is whether or not to register the order. Meanwhile, the other state still has jurisdiction over the order until the new state decides that the "foreign" order is now a... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: How do I get supervised visitation for my son.
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N'kia (NLN)
answered on Apr 1, 2023

In North Carolina, visitation is considered a type of custody. Anyone who believes they have or should have the right to visitation may sue for custody. Usually, a custody lawsuit must be in the county where the child resides. Like any type of lawsuit, there is special language that needs to be in... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for North Carolina on
Q: How do I contest a divorce?

My husband filed for the divorce and originally I did not contest it. A court date was scheduled for January 31,2022 and the divorce was not granted because I was not properly served. I now feel like I should contest the divorce, but I don’t know if I still have the opportunity to.

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answered on Jan 19, 2023

In North Carolina the requirement for divorce is that parties must have lived separate and apart except in rare circumstances. It requires that only one party needs to have had the intent to live separate and apart. To contest the divorce you would need to show you have not lived separate and... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Adoption and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: Can I adopt in NC with ADHD?
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answered on Jan 18, 2023

According to statute in North Carolina any adult may file to adopt a child. If you want to adopt a child the clerk or judge dealing with special proceeding actions will Order a Home Study. The home study will include the following:

physical and mental health, financial information, the...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Family Law and Criminal Law for North Carolina on
Q: Nc child custody lawyer need help. Have to go back and want to know gull extend of options believe been screwed

Had custody case got 5050. Unsure never got a final copy and has been 4 years. Problems have persistent need to go back feel like right have been violated with the case need help going back

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answered on Jan 12, 2023

First you should call the clerk of court to find out if an Order has been entered. You should have been served, but it is possible that an Order was entered without you being served. The clerk will be able to inform you of the status of the case. If there is no actual written Order in the file,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Military Law for North Carolina on
Q: Does only the judge have to sign a temporary custody agreement due to military deployment (this is after he deployed)

On the order filed against us, they crossed out where the plaintiff, defendant and her attorney would have signed. Are they not required to sign the “motion” that was filed? My husband had primary custody of my stepdaughter that I have raised for the last 8 years and BM moved to NC when she... View More

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answered on Sep 12, 2022

A custody agreement may be formed between parties without the involvement of a court, but it carries no enforcement mechanism if a court is not involved. When co-parents are getting along, these are routinely formed without a court's involvement. In some cases the agreement is entered as a... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: What do I do if my sons father wants to break our custody agreement and I have primary custody
Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
answered on Jul 26, 2022

Your options depend on whether you have a "custody agreement" or a "custody order." If you merely have a "custody agreement," it is likely not an order of the court, and you could not hold your husband in contempt of court if he acted contrary to the terms. On the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: I have a question about kids and visitation with ex husband.

I asked my ex-husband if he could watch our two kids on July 13 when I go out of town for work (a day trip). He told me no, that he would do nothing extra. He will only see them every other weekend and every other Thursday for dinner. I asked about his two weeks in the summer that is in the child... View More

Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
answered on May 25, 2022

No, there really isn't.

The court CAN'T make someone care more about their children, or want to have additional time with them. I suppose it is possible that you could rework your custody schedule so that he has 124 overnights per year (which would change his child support...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: Do grandparents get rights in North Carolina?

I have a 13 month old baby girl. Her dad and I recently separated. He is threatening to take me to court so that his dad and stepmom can have rights to our baby. I don’t want my baby anyone near those people and they have disrespected me in so many ways. I’m not keep her away from her dad... View More

Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
Mr. Albert Loch Saslow
answered on May 23, 2022

A typical custody order that gives one parent "x" amount of custodial time and the other parent "y" amount of custodial time does NOT have any restrictions about what each parent can do with their respective time. So there is always the real chance that the other parent will... View More

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