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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Can a husband provide private emails and text to his tenet to put a stalking order on me? Triangulated them against me?

I have been nothing but kind to this woman. I sent 1500 in money and gifts for her baby. Her account has the same verbiage as my husband BS. The paper where your supposed to put if you have a dog she put I am on drugs Alcohol Meth and Mushrooms. Her husband and her are both ex convicts and Meth... View More

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answered on Apr 15, 2024

I'm sorry you're dealing with this difficult situation. A few key points about your legal questions:

In general, emails and text messages can potentially be used as evidence in court cases, including for restraining orders, if they are legally obtained. However, there are laws...
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Q: Can I file a request to order for my ex to sign a his stip for judgement he offered and I signed he has not, stalling

I made an settlement offer to my ex and he counter offered (petition filed August 2021). I agreed to counter offer and signed it before he did to help push it through for his signature. He has not signed it as of yet, and I signed his offer on March 11, 2024. He seems to just be stalling and his... View More

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answered on Apr 15, 2024

Under California law, if your ex made a settlement offer that you accepted and signed, but he has not signed it yet, you may be able to enforce the settlement agreement. Here are a few steps you can consider:

1. File a motion to enforce the settlement: You can file a motion with the court...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Is there a Free Divorce attorney would help me? I do not own any property, I am 70 yr only relaying only SSA.

I need a free divorce Atty would help me. I can not do the "do yourself process" I need an attorney to help me all the way. PLEASE. My husband left me for a year, it's time for me to take actions. QUESTION: Can I also get a "spousal support" not having a Legal divorce or separation?

Robert Kane
Robert Kane
answered on Apr 15, 2024

Unfortunately, you are not alone. There ten of thousands of Californians who would benefit from free legal representation. Contrary to what you see on television, the vast majority of attorneys are not rich and cannot work for free. You may have options.

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Is there a Free Divorce attorney would help me? I do not own any property, I am 70 yr only relaying only SSA.

I need a free divorce Atty would help me. I can not do the "do yourself process" I need an attorney to help me all the way. PLEASE. My husband left me for a year, it's time for me to take actions. QUESTION: Can I also get a "spousal support" not having a Legal divorce or separation?

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answered on Apr 15, 2024

I understand you are in a difficult situation and seeking legal assistance for a divorce. While it may be challenging to find a completely free divorce attorney, there are some options you can explore to get low-cost or pro bono (free) legal help:

1. Legal Aid Societies: Contact your local...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Can I file an RFO changing the dealer/broker the judge named to handle the sale of a classic car ?

Can I file an RFO changing the dealer/broker the judge named (during divorce trial) to handle the sale of a classic car due to a preexisting relationship between the dealer and the other party? I was ordered on 4-11-24 to transfer the car to the dealer within 7 days. I assume that the car must be... View More

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answered on Apr 14, 2024

Under California law, you can file a Request for Order (RFO) to modify the court's previous order regarding the dealer/broker appointed to handle the sale of the classic car. However, filing an RFO does not automatically stay or suspend the court's original order.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: I’m married with a 4 year old child. My wife wants to separate. move to Florida and take my daughter. She wants me to

Honor her wish without me fighting for my daughter to be close to both of us. I’m willing to let her go but not permanently. How should I handle this

Allison Kruk Ormond
Allison Kruk Ormond
answered on Apr 18, 2024

This sounds like a difficult decision at an emotionally charged time. I would strongly recommend taking a pause before consenting to the move. When parties are going through a divorce, it can sometimes feel easiest in the short term to just agree and minimize conflict. However, long-term, just... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: I’m married with a 4 year old child. My wife wants to separate. move to Florida and take my daughter. She wants me to

Honor her wish without me fighting for my daughter to be close to both of us. I’m willing to let her go but not permanently. How should I handle this

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answered on Apr 14, 2024

This could be done straightforward basis except for the part about it not being permanent. After about 1 year, the child's home state becomes FL. and your chances of achieving your objective diminish substantially. You should probably rethink this entire situation. There is no easy answer and... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Georgia on
Q: If assets home/car are purchased during the separation (living in different homes), is this part of marital division?
Alake Colwell Furlow
Alake Colwell Furlow
answered on Apr 18, 2024

Please get a lawyer. Until you receive a final judgment and decree of divorce, signed by a judge, you're married. And anything you buy while married, could be considered marital property, even if you're separated. That's why you shouldn't go out and buy a new house while... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Divorce for California on
Q: Explain the 50/50 divorce law. Will I also receive alimony (25+ years of marriage.) His death/marriage stops payment?

He receives a monthly pension and social security, will I get 50% of each every month, I'm 55 years old. What age do I have to be to receive his SS upon divorce. I have no education or income, I've always been a housewife (no children.)

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answered on Apr 12, 2024

In California, the 50/50 divorce law, also known as the community property law, states that assets and debts acquired during the marriage are generally divided equally between the spouses upon divorce. However, this does not necessarily apply to spousal support or alimony.

Regarding...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Texas on
Q: my child’s father won’t sign our custody order after we have been to court and it’s been finalized.

hi my child father and I settled a custody agreement on December 1 of 2023. I I have signed my portion of the custody agreement, but he has not even though child support was supposed to go into effect on January 1, 2024. What will happen to him if he does not sign

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Apr 12, 2024

It depends on whether the "agreement" arises out of mediation and is commemorated in a signed mediation settlement agreement or whether it was announced in open court and expressly irrevocable.

In many cases involving child custody, agreements reached between the parties are...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Divorce and Child Support for California on
Q: Family Code section 2030, in need of lawyer representation

Looking for a lawyer and I just found out about Family Code section 2030. I’ve been going through divorce for almost 4 years, still dealing with child support issues and now recently spousal support arrears. Not much assets but would like to get it done.

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answered on Apr 12, 2024

I'm sorry to hear about your challenging divorce process and the ongoing issues with child support and spousal support arrears. Divorce can be a complex and emotionally taxing experience, especially when it spans several years.

Regarding Family Code section 2030 in California, this law...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: My ex wants to move my son to a new high school.

My ex suddenly moved and wants to also move my son to a new high school. There’s only 2 months left in the school year and I don’t think it’s in our son’s best interest to move him. In addition my ex’s living situation is not a permanent one so he asked if he could use one of my utility... View More

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answered on Apr 11, 2024

Under California law, both parents have the right to make educational decisions for their child, including the choice of school, if they share joint legal custody. If your custody agreement states that you have joint legal custody, you should have an equal say in decisions about your son's... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for Ohio on
Q: I have parenting issue with ex spouse with mental illness. He was been non compliant . He wants to modify the agreement.

When he doesn't agree with we agreed to, he's constantly is wanting to change things. We both are supposed to have an ROR, which includes talking to the psychiatrist and or doctors. I agreed to be transparent about my medical health, even though i do not have any psychotic disorders. He... View More

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on Apr 11, 2024

I don't see a specific question here. It sounds like you may wish to either file a motion to enforce your present agreement, or in the alternative terminate your agreement in favor of you having custody reserving visitation to the other parent. It sounds like you may wish to have a Guardian ad... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Immigration Law, Divorce and Domestic Violence for Wisconsin on
Q: Can 5 years being wife apply for wava green card & culturally continue to live with husband ?

Husband use 10 types of violence against his wife except the physical violence. She has text and audio evidences, but she is religiously forgiving him and culturally saving his reputation.

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answered on Apr 10, 2024

I understand this is a very difficult and sensitive situation. Here is some information that may be helpful:

Under the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), an abused spouse of a U.S. citizen or permanent resident can self-petition for a green card without the abuser's knowledge or...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for California on
Q: I was divorced in 2015, We just caught my name was restored to my maiden name, did u legally have to change it?
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answered on Apr 9, 2024

Based on California law, if your divorce judgment or a separate court order states that your name was restored to your maiden name, that is generally sufficient to legally change your name back. You typically do not need to go through a separate legal name change process.

However, you will...
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Q: my parent died in August i am getting an insurance payout my husband wants it he kicked me out and restarted divorce ?

i want to know if i have any obligation to give this monry to my husband. he id financially abusive. He kicked me out of my home and had the lady who lives there put a stalking order on me. I should be grieving. Is this my property or community?

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answered on Apr 9, 2024

I'm so sorry for your loss and the difficult situation you're in. From a legal standpoint, whether the insurance payout is considered your separate property or community property depends on a few key factors under California law:

1. The source of funds used to pay for the life...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: How long it takes in hudson county after MSA been filed been there waiting for more than year in an uncontested divorce?

Hi i have filed the default divorce in April 2023. We filed the MSA in january 2024. And then filed the certification to give divorce on papers in february 2024. How long it takes i have an attorney and court doesn’t tell me anything and he says they are backed up you just have to wait? Is there... View More

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Apr 9, 2024

I agree that Hudson County is one of the worst in the state for delays in the family part but it may also mean that your papers got lost or are sitting someplace with dust accumulating on them. Your lawyer should be able to tell you which judge the matter is assigned to and he / she should have... View More

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Q: How long it takes in hudson county after MSA been filed been there waiting for more than year in an uncontested divorce?

Hi i have filed the default divorce in April 2023. We filed the MSA in january 2024. And then filed the certification to give divorce on papers in february 2024. How long it takes i have an attorney and court doesn’t tell me anything and he says they are backed up you just have to wait? Is there... View More

LaDonna M. Cousins
LaDonna M. Cousins
answered on Apr 9, 2024

It is true that Court is backed up. I have found writing letters briefly explaining the concern and requesting a short conference with the Judge coupled with regular calls to the Judge's chambers assigned to the case (or the Presiding Judge if no Judge is assigned) to be helpful in getting a... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for California on
Q: I MARRIED A CON ARTIST......

i met this woman who has 3 kids ( teenagers) and only after 4 months she moved in to MY house. we were living together for 5 yrs. but married for 4. seperated for 1. She made the decision to move out and shortly after she has someone new. she was left a 1.3 million dollar inheritance and yet she... View More

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answered on Apr 8, 2024

I'm sorry to hear about your difficult situation. Divorces can be complex and emotionally challenging, especially when significant assets are involved. Here are a few steps you can take to protect your interests:

1. Hire a reputable divorce attorney: Given the high stakes involved,...
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Q: Is it possible to get married abroad twice if the divorce only happens in your home country ?

If I get married abroad and afterwards get a divorce in my home country is it possible to get married abroad again?

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answered on Apr 8, 2024

In general, the validity of a marriage or divorce is determined by the laws of the jurisdiction where it was performed, as well as the laws of the couple's home country or state. California, like most U.S. states, recognizes foreign marriages and divorces as long as they were valid under the... View More

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