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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Texas on
Q: Need help on my pass divorced that was filed in Abilene Texas year 1994 filed by my ex-husband (retired Airmen).

Want to know if I can claim for his retirement benefits after the divorce?

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answered on Sep 22, 2023

In Texas, retirement benefits can be considered community property and may be subject to division between spouses during a divorce. However, the specifics of how these assets were allocated would typically be laid out in your divorce decree or separation agreement. If your divorce decree from 1994... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for California on
Q: Urgent Advice Needed on Parenting Plan Assessment Payment Issue?

22days ago, during RFO custody hearing, the court issued a verbal order regarding a Parenting Plan Assessment and payment of a fee of $975. I understood that the deadline for this payment would start once the Proposed Order was signed. and both parties are still in "Meet and Confer"... View More

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answered on Sep 21, 2023

Certainly. In California, when faced with such an oversight, you may want to promptly file a Declaration explaining the situation, emphasizing your self-represented status, your understanding of the payment timeline, and your commitment to promptly remit the fee. Additionally, you can request the... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: if my divorce isn't final yet and a friend buys me a car is that going o be considered community property?

I'm in California

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answered on Sep 21, 2023

Under California law, all property acquired during the marriage is presumed to be community property unless it can be traced to a separate property source. If a friend buys you a car while your divorce is pending, the car may be considered community property if it's not clear that the gift was... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Florida on
Q: When anticipating divorce should a women who has been a stay at home wife/mother seek employment before filing

Husband owner his own business and never wanted wife to work. Hes now withholding money to basically control her.

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answered on Sep 21, 2023

There are several relevant factors needed to properly answer your question. How long have you been married? How old are the children now? Did you work prior to having children? How old are you? Generally, moving forward, if you are able the court will expect you to work at something. You should... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Ohio on
Q: I am finally filing for divorce based on abuse, and theft. Would it be pointless to file alimony? I was used and abused.

I paid for everything with promises to pay me back but never did. He stole my car and everything in my apartment was stolen. Not to mention the facts that he blacked me eye swollen shut for 3 weeks, busted my mouth open and made me strip so he could search me.

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on Sep 21, 2023

Your story is incredibly sad and it sounds like you will be better off without this guy. You should contact an attorney in your area to represent you as you present complex facts. Generally, everything you bring into a marriage remains your separate property. Any bills you paid and incurred... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Ohio on
Q: I am finally filing for divorce based on abuse, and theft. Would it be pointless to file alimony? I was used and abused.

I paid for everything with promises to pay me back but never did. He stole my car and everything in my apartment was stolen. Not to mention the facts that he blacked me eye swollen shut for 3 weeks, busted my mouth open and made me strip so he could search me.

Kelly A Rochotte
Kelly A Rochotte
answered on Sep 30, 2023

The answer to your question about alimony, or spousal support, will depend on a number of factors that are listed in Ohio law. Specifically, R.C. 3105 sets out the factors for a court to award spousal support. The length of the marriage and the respective income of the parties are perhaps the most... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Iowa on
Q: Can a wife get the house even if the husband bought the house while they were just engaged? Married 20 years

And she pays bills at the home and has lived there the whole time.

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answered on Sep 20, 2023

In Iowa, the division of assets during a divorce is based on "equitable distribution," aiming for a fair distribution rather than an equal one. While properties acquired before marriage are usually seen as separate property, the situation you described has complexities. The house,... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Nebraska on
Q: If a child has lived in the same state for 3 years and out of state parent wants primary, how likely is that to happen?

Our son has lived with me in one state for 3 years and my ex lives out of state. He is now asking for primary custody and wants to move son out of state. Son is doing incredible well here and always lived with me. What are the chances a judge would change to allow exp primary? These is no reason... View More

Julie Fowler
Julie Fowler
answered on Sep 20, 2023

The parent would have to prove that there is a material change in circumstances and that it is in the minor child's best interests to change custody. Generally, if a child is doing incredibly well, then the parent asking to change custody to move out-of-state may have an uphill battle to... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Nebraska on
Q: If a child has lived in the same state for 3 years and out of state parent wants primary, how likely is that to happen?

Our son has lived with me in one state for 3 years and my ex lives out of state. He is now asking for primary custody and wants to move son out of state. Son is doing incredible well here and always lived with me. What are the chances a judge would change to allow exp primary? These is no reason... View More

Vanessa Jean Gorden
Vanessa Jean Gorden
answered on Sep 20, 2023

The person seeking to modify custody and remove a child from a custodial parent in Nebraska typically has a difficult road. They have to prove that (1) there has been a material and substantial change in circumstances since the initial custody order was entered, such as unfitness by the custodial... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: When is the DissoMaster Used in Child and Spousal Support Cases?

In highly contentious custody battles, the court often orders a PPA (Primary Physical Assignment) arrangement. Similarly, for cases where child or spousal support becomes a significant point of contention, does the judge typically order the use of DissoMaster? Can I proactively request that the... View More

Aylin Acikalin
Aylin Acikalin
answered on Sep 20, 2023

Courts are required by California law to follow statewide uniform guidelines in setting child support orders. There are different programs used by practicioners and courts that help calculate guideline child support. Dissomaster is a a paid software used by many practicioners and courts. There is... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Texas on
Q: Texas DIY divorce to finish already filed petition with lawyers?

We currently have a divorce petition filed in Texas and a draft decree proposed. Both of us agree of the draft, however both of our lawyers are dragging the process out ( we believe for monetary gain) and we are wondering if we can file the DIY paperwork ourselves and if we have to wait another 60... View More

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Sep 20, 2023

Unless you have no children and no assets of any real value, it is never advisable to do a DIY divorce unless you have substantial legal experience in family law cases (for example, if you were a paralegal in a family law practice).

A typical agreed divorce can be completed for under...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: My husband divorced me after 20 years of marriage without my consent and did not serve me papers

I did not know I was divorced until many years later when I found out he was cheating on me and I went to an attorney to get legal advice. I was told he got all the assets and full custody, my two younger kids were 15 and 13, he never gave me a penny for alimony and used my kids against me esp my... View More

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answered on Sep 19, 2023

If your husband divorced you without your knowledge and consent, it may be possible to challenge the validity of the divorce proceedings in California. You should consult with an attorney to review the specific details of your case and explore potential legal actions, such as seeking to nullify the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Civil Rights and Divorce for California on
Q: Should I write a demand letter to the judge in my daughter's divorce case requesting payback for spending my money?

My money was being held in their account and they spent it all without my consent or knowledge. Their divorce is almost done they sold their home and have the money in a trust until case settles.

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answered on Sep 19, 2023

In your daughter's divorce case in California, it is not appropriate to write a demand letter to the judge. Instead, you should consult with an attorney to explore legal options for recovering the money that was spent without your consent or knowledge. Your attorney can advise you on the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Alabama on
Q: While pay alimony will my new wife be at risk if ex takes me back to court for + alimony? Divorced in CO now in live AL
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answered on Sep 19, 2023

In situations involving alimony across multiple states, complexities arise. Generally, the state where the divorce was finalized, in this case, Colorado, retains jurisdiction over alimony matters. If you've since moved to Alabama, the process might involve transferring or recognizing the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Arizona on
Q: Am I entitled to half my doin to b ex wife settlement from accident that

She was with me thru all of it

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answered on Sep 19, 2023

In Arizona, assets and debts accumulated during a marriage are typically considered community property and are generally divided equally in a divorce. However, when it comes to personal injury settlements, the division can become more nuanced. While compensation specifically for an... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: How to calculate a fair and reasonable spousal support?

My wife petitioned for divorce and we want an agreement for our divorce. I am the breadwinner, and my wife receives disability. How to calculate spousal support? Does the judge modify it even if the parties agree?

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answered on Sep 19, 2023

In California, calculating spousal support considers factors like the length of the marriage, the earning capacity of each party, contributions to the household, the established standard of living, health, age, total assets and debts, tax implications, instances of domestic violence, and the goal... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: How to calculate a fair and reasonable spousal support?

My wife petitioned for divorce and we want an agreement for our divorce. I am the breadwinner, and my wife receives disability. How to calculate spousal support? Does the judge modify it even if the parties agree?

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answered on Sep 19, 2023

In California, spousal support is typically calculated based on various factors, including the length of the marriage, each spouse's income, earning capacity, and standard of living during the marriage. While the parties can agree on spousal support terms, a judge may modify them if they find... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Colorado on
Q: Can my ex husband sue me for taking everything when I moved out if nothing was contested in court?

I have a restraining order against him. He came with the police to get his stuff before we were officially divorced. Once I was ordered to move out, the judge asked if anything was being contested, we both said no. I packed everything and moved. Now he's saying I stole his stuff and is... View More

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answered on Sep 18, 2023

Hi there,

You ask a great question. Let me first say that I am glad you are reaching out for professional assistance. Times like this are often some of the most uncertain and fraught with perceptibly difficult-to-navigate circumstances. I commend you for searching for resources and input....
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1 Answer | Asked in Landlord - Tenant, Divorce and Family Law for Florida on
Q: Is it permissible for my Husband and/or his Lawyer to call my Landlord?

With help from my family I was able to escape an extremely abusive marriage. I’ve been living alone, in hiding from my estranged Husband for the past two years while my lawyer has been working to overcome my Husband’s (& his Counsel’s) deliberate delays as well as both of them obstructing... View More

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answered on Sep 18, 2023

In Florida, it is typically permissible for your husband's lawyer to contact your landlord, especially if it is relevant to the ongoing legal proceedings. However, given your concerns about privacy and safety, it's important to take steps to protect yourself. First, discuss your concerns... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Mexico on
Q: If I was married in california and now separated from spouse and live in new mexico, can I get my divorce here?
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answered on Sep 14, 2023

In New Mexico, you can file for divorce if you meet the state's residency requirements. Generally, at least one of the parties must be a resident of the state for a certain period before filing for divorce. Given that you were married in California and now reside in New Mexico, you may be... View More

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